> start new discussion reply. I don’t think anyone here is gonna be able to change you’re mind about your self image. 10. “Calling me after sending me a rapid fire of texts that I don’t answer. It may be hard to hear, but men are noticing that stuff anyway. You see someone you like, make a move, if it doesn't work, you're no worse off than you were before. So, pick yourself up off of the fucking floor and get some help. I just get so jealous and sad because some women can go out to a simple place such as the grocery store or gas station and have guys ask for their number but that never happens to me. I am 5'4 and 120 lbs and my sister tells me all the time that I don't have a boyfriend because I don't go out a lot but I do go out a lot (I am in college and I am out and about everywhere). Una likes them latino and Dos and I like them white. Go to first unread Skip to page: lachachacha Badges: 16. [–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (0 children), [–]ORPHH 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (0 children). So it could be a lot of things. Announcements Applying to uni? ... A self-confident person who doesn’t have complexes and considers themselves attractive and successful appreciates the same qualities in other people. use the following search parameters to narrow your results: Has something terrible happened in your life? Be Supportive If what you're saying is having a negative impact on someone seeking support, your comments may be removed, and you may be banned. © 2021 reddit inc. All rights reserved. Hmm, the more you know, right? In my experience, women have a fairly narrow view of what they consider beautiful in other women. Essentially, make yourself easy to approach. So your looks absolutely aren’t the problem. Let me give you an example. Watch. I feel confident to walk away from situations and men that don’t serve me, and to give men feedback if they do something I don’t like. I think God put this in the male psyche to propagate the species. The reality was that my shitty, depressed, hateful personality was kind of a turn-off. It's more attractive to look at and feels nicer to touch when it's free of gels or sticky products. And here I have to admit that I am undoubtedly judging their books by their covers, but I have yet to find the exception to the rule. ... Those blessed with naturally plump lips … Self confidence is extremely attractive. i wish i could be pretty. Conversely, a 20-year-old woman will be most attracted to a 23-year-old-man … But I'm sure you knew that- you just didn't want to. However, this doesn’t immediately discount women with pixie cuts or bobs as less attractive. 2. and then they stop talking to me. By this we mean a specific feature of yours that others may find attractive, such as your long legs or your plump lips. Of course, none of the guys are going to find you all that attractive either. We are all into different people, it just takes some of us a while before we can be confident enough to admit it. It hurts so much i feel like i have a sword going through my heart all day. Yeah, in modern times, guys can’t just cold approach without being called a creep, or a even worse like catching a case for harassment or something like that. You sound like my ex, so I'm gonna give you some cold advice. or Create Personality Quiz. If you're afraid of getting hit by #metoo, there's nothing you can do. Question 21 Do you like parties? nothing changed. B. Thankfully, women definitely don’t reject good men in favor of bad men. Well, most men. Men and women don’t find the same things attractive. Drawing in their eyebrows.’ Look love, thanks to the great over-plucking massacre of 1999, most of … No matter how selective a woman might be, some have strict physical attributes from their must-haves list, as an OkCupid study found that women find 80 percent of men unattractive. Attractive men may actually possess better-quality genes, and thus may be healthier, live longer, and even be more intelligent (Perrilloux et al., 2010). It's hard to know if you're a guy-magnet or not. Don’t let the sheer fear of rejection stop you from getting a nice girlfriend. Just because no one whistles at you as you cross a street, doesn't mean some other women do not enjoy it. i lost count of how many times a guy said to me "i noticed that youre interested in me but i just see you as a friend". Furthermore, each man … i just want someone to be with me. i was always that "shy ugly girl" and i hate myself for it. Your physical appearance probably has less of an impact on other people's perception of you, in comparison to your behavior. if you seem like you are busy, guy won’t want to approach you. “Calling me after sending me a rapid fire of texts that I don’t answer. I’ve been single for a year and only been asked on two dates - both I had to semi initiate...I’m starting to get resentful about the lack of proper attention I receive. Never. Then I found out ghosting is usually what happens after the cute girl says yes or we just sort of talk off and on for months/years while I occasionally ask "are you free?" Of course, don't try to change yourself to make anyone happy. If you don’t flash a smile in a guy’s way, GWWTAY. every time i see a pretty woman i get so fucking jealous. I felt horrible about it.). Wrong! Server: irc.freenode.net Room: #reddit-mmfb. There's nothing wrong with it, however, being like that make guys more reluctant to date you. And when I have my Men Preferred Natural Looking Hair, … I love them! If you come across as “oh woe is me. Men don't want to go in for a kiss and come out looking like they just joined the circus. Been there. Men on Reddit have been furiously adding to an Ask Men thread entitled: ‘What is something women think makes them more attractive to men while men think it makes them less attractive?’ if a man friendzones you, it's because of your looks. (55.8 Kg). 800-273-TALK (8255), For those who don't mind a harsher approach, try /r/HowToNotGiveAFuck. [–]PaxDramaticus 9 points10 points11 points 2 years ago (2 children). Photo: Getty Images . We have to approach when we can and if she doesn't smile and get chatty within 5 seconds, excuse yourself and get back to your own business. noone will ever look at me and think "wow she is cute" or "wow she is pretty". I've noticed that men don't seem to pay attention to me anymore while out in bars and all. Guys are looking for signs that you want to be approached, if you can successfully give off these signs they will approach you. ... THEN women will find me attractive. Let me give you an example. Here’s an example of a time I semi-initiated and it semi-failed - there’s a guy I’ve known for a few years (don’t know him well) who I’ve always found attractive, every time I see him out, I make sure to say hello and be friendly...a few weeks ago I saw him out, said hello etc. We don’t know who they are, or whether they are in any way a representative sample of single men… People decided for themselves whether they wanted to add a comment to the Reddit thread. In my case I don't do it because I am well aware of the fact I'll get rejected. It sounds that you are strong and smart, but short-tempered and improper. [–]drewisbeast567 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (4 children). However, after about a year of keeping at it I had gone from 210 Lb. 2. Good-looking men are assumed to have better personalities, more rewarding careers, and more fulfilling life experiences (Dion … For example, you say that you "can't speak" and experience inability to communicate normally when attractive men are around. What is it that you are doing wrong? What people don't like is when you're being bothersome. So, perhaps it is a negative perspective of life, or consistent negative remarks which drives other people away. In general the guys that have been attracted to me have been shorter. I mean, firstly because the whole concept of the friendzone is bunk to begin with, but also because I have definitely chosen not to get involved with women I found attractive but for whom there was some other complication I didn't want to deal with. College is great because you can find friends, and if you don’t like them you can stop talking to them and never see them again. Me … and then they stop talking to me. that was in middle/high school of course. In one word, confidence. you get weird looks, noone takes you seriously, girls don't want to be friends with you, instead they bully you and guys don't wanna to talk to you. noone does. I wasted my whole life taking drugs. [–]drewisbeast567 2 points3 points4 points 2 years ago (2 children), Freshman/sophomore year is honestly just high school 2.0, I think 2nd semester sophomore year is when the greatest change happens, [–]mayflowerpenguin[S] 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (1 child). I've noticed that men don't seem to pay attention to me anymore while out in bars and all. It wasn't easy; I don't have great self-discipline. Once you hit the professional world or college, whichever you choose to do, people start to judge you on the merit of your soul rather than how you look physically. i feel like you only find love if you're pretty. New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast, A subreddit to discuss and vent about the dating process and learn from the experiences of others, Press J to jump to the feed. I realize that we can’t always have it all and finally, I am okay with that. and that's why i'm alone.. [–]Goodbye_nagasaki 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (0 children). The girl that gets approached is the one that can make guys around her feel comfortable going up to them. Tldw (it’s only like five mins, not bad at all you should): men don’t want to be creepy. Like you've internalized their reactions as them losing interest in you, perhaps what's going on is more complicated. i feel so lonely. If you're inquisitive and want to know if you truly are one then this quiz is sure to tell you! i'd to it. So, it kind of bothers me when I see someone who is a fat piece of shit but they refuse to date anyone who is fat and refuse to lose weight. 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It may be hard to hear, but men are noticing that stuff anyway. You see someone you like, make a move, if it doesn't work, you're no worse off than you were before. So, pick yourself up off of the fucking floor and get some help. I just get so jealous and sad because some women can go out to a simple place such as the grocery store or gas station and have guys ask for their number but that never happens to me. I am 5'4 and 120 lbs and my sister tells me all the time that I don't have a boyfriend because I don't go out a lot but I do go out a lot (I am in college and I am out and about everywhere). Una likes them latino and Dos and I like them white. Go to first unread Skip to page: lachachacha Badges: 16. [–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (0 children), [–]ORPHH 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (0 children). So it could be a lot of things. Announcements Applying to uni? ... A self-confident person who doesn’t have complexes and considers themselves attractive and successful appreciates the same qualities in other people. use the following search parameters to narrow your results: Has something terrible happened in your life? Be Supportive If what you're saying is having a negative impact on someone seeking support, your comments may be removed, and you may be banned. © 2021 reddit inc. All rights reserved. Hmm, the more you know, right? In my experience, women have a fairly narrow view of what they consider beautiful in other women. Essentially, make yourself easy to approach. So your looks absolutely aren’t the problem. Let me give you an example. Watch. I feel confident to walk away from situations and men that don’t serve me, and to give men feedback if they do something I don’t like. I think God put this in the male psyche to propagate the species. The reality was that my shitty, depressed, hateful personality was kind of a turn-off. It's more attractive to look at and feels nicer to touch when it's free of gels or sticky products. And here I have to admit that I am undoubtedly judging their books by their covers, but I have yet to find the exception to the rule. ... Those blessed with naturally plump lips … Self confidence is extremely attractive. i wish i could be pretty. Conversely, a 20-year-old woman will be most attracted to a 23-year-old-man … But I'm sure you knew that- you just didn't want to. However, this doesn’t immediately discount women with pixie cuts or bobs as less attractive. 2. and then they stop talking to me. By this we mean a specific feature of yours that others may find attractive, such as your long legs or your plump lips. Of course, none of the guys are going to find you all that attractive either. We are all into different people, it just takes some of us a while before we can be confident enough to admit it. It hurts so much i feel like i have a sword going through my heart all day. Yeah, in modern times, guys can’t just cold approach without being called a creep, or a even worse like catching a case for harassment or something like that. You sound like my ex, so I'm gonna give you some cold advice. or Create Personality Quiz. If you're afraid of getting hit by #metoo, there's nothing you can do. Question 21 Do you like parties? nothing changed. B. Thankfully, women definitely don’t reject good men in favor of bad men. Well, most men. Men and women don’t find the same things attractive. Drawing in their eyebrows.’ Look love, thanks to the great over-plucking massacre of 1999, most of … No matter how selective a woman might be, some have strict physical attributes from their must-haves list, as an OkCupid study found that women find 80 percent of men unattractive. Attractive men may actually possess better-quality genes, and thus may be healthier, live longer, and even be more intelligent (Perrilloux et al., 2010). It's hard to know if you're a guy-magnet or not. Don’t let the sheer fear of rejection stop you from getting a nice girlfriend. Just because no one whistles at you as you cross a street, doesn't mean some other women do not enjoy it. i lost count of how many times a guy said to me "i noticed that youre interested in me but i just see you as a friend". Furthermore, each man … i just want someone to be with me. i was always that "shy ugly girl" and i hate myself for it. Your physical appearance probably has less of an impact on other people's perception of you, in comparison to your behavior. if you seem like you are busy, guy won’t want to approach you. “Calling me after sending me a rapid fire of texts that I don’t answer. I’ve been single for a year and only been asked on two dates - both I had to semi initiate...I’m starting to get resentful about the lack of proper attention I receive. Never. Then I found out ghosting is usually what happens after the cute girl says yes or we just sort of talk off and on for months/years while I occasionally ask "are you free?" Of course, don't try to change yourself to make anyone happy. If you don’t flash a smile in a guy’s way, GWWTAY. every time i see a pretty woman i get so fucking jealous. I felt horrible about it.). Wrong! Server: irc.freenode.net Room: #reddit-mmfb. There's nothing wrong with it, however, being like that make guys more reluctant to date you. And when I have my Men Preferred Natural Looking Hair, … I love them! If you come across as “oh woe is me. Men don't want to go in for a kiss and come out looking like they just joined the circus. Been there. Men on Reddit have been furiously adding to an Ask Men thread entitled: ‘What is something women think makes them more attractive to men while men think it makes them less attractive?’ if a man friendzones you, it's because of your looks. (55.8 Kg). 800-273-TALK (8255), For those who don't mind a harsher approach, try /r/HowToNotGiveAFuck. [–]PaxDramaticus 9 points10 points11 points 2 years ago (2 children). Photo: Getty Images . We have to approach when we can and if she doesn't smile and get chatty within 5 seconds, excuse yourself and get back to your own business. noone will ever look at me and think "wow she is cute" or "wow she is pretty". I've noticed that men don't seem to pay attention to me anymore while out in bars and all. Guys are looking for signs that you want to be approached, if you can successfully give off these signs they will approach you. ... THEN women will find me attractive. Let me give you an example. Here’s an example of a time I semi-initiated and it semi-failed - there’s a guy I’ve known for a few years (don’t know him well) who I’ve always found attractive, every time I see him out, I make sure to say hello and be friendly...a few weeks ago I saw him out, said hello etc. We don’t know who they are, or whether they are in any way a representative sample of single men… People decided for themselves whether they wanted to add a comment to the Reddit thread. In my case I don't do it because I am well aware of the fact I'll get rejected. It sounds that you are strong and smart, but short-tempered and improper. [–]drewisbeast567 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (4 children). However, after about a year of keeping at it I had gone from 210 Lb. 2. Good-looking men are assumed to have better personalities, more rewarding careers, and more fulfilling life experiences (Dion … For example, you say that you "can't speak" and experience inability to communicate normally when attractive men are around. What is it that you are doing wrong? What people don't like is when you're being bothersome. So, perhaps it is a negative perspective of life, or consistent negative remarks which drives other people away. In general the guys that have been attracted to me have been shorter. I mean, firstly because the whole concept of the friendzone is bunk to begin with, but also because I have definitely chosen not to get involved with women I found attractive but for whom there was some other complication I didn't want to deal with. College is great because you can find friends, and if you don’t like them you can stop talking to them and never see them again. Me … and then they stop talking to me. that was in middle/high school of course. In one word, confidence. you get weird looks, noone takes you seriously, girls don't want to be friends with you, instead they bully you and guys don't wanna to talk to you. noone does. I wasted my whole life taking drugs. [–]drewisbeast567 2 points3 points4 points 2 years ago (2 children), Freshman/sophomore year is honestly just high school 2.0, I think 2nd semester sophomore year is when the greatest change happens, [–]mayflowerpenguin[S] 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (1 child). I've noticed that men don't seem to pay attention to me anymore while out in bars and all. It wasn't easy; I don't have great self-discipline. Once you hit the professional world or college, whichever you choose to do, people start to judge you on the merit of your soul rather than how you look physically. i feel like you only find love if you're pretty. New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast, A subreddit to discuss and vent about the dating process and learn from the experiences of others, Press J to jump to the feed. I realize that we can’t always have it all and finally, I am okay with that. and that's why i'm alone.. [–]Goodbye_nagasaki 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (0 children). The girl that gets approached is the one that can make guys around her feel comfortable going up to them. Tldw (it’s only like five mins, not bad at all you should): men don’t want to be creepy. Like you've internalized their reactions as them losing interest in you, perhaps what's going on is more complicated. i feel so lonely. If you're inquisitive and want to know if you truly are one then this quiz is sure to tell you! i'd to it. So, it kind of bothers me when I see someone who is a fat piece of shit but they refuse to date anyone who is fat and refuse to lose weight. 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Some people do find particular extremes, muscles, I suppose, or really big breasts, to be attractive. im always alone. Christine Schoenwald . ... owning a set of clubs actually makes you more attractive to the opposite sex. But I didn't do anything with my life. Mar 19, 2018, 09:52 EDT. Get active and get involved, its the best way to improve a bad situation. I thought uni would be a great chance to meet people, but it seems everyone except me is hooking with with … Looking through your post history, you seem to suffer from some sort of depression or other mental health issues. Instead, I focus on getting to know someone in a shared activity, and only after I know them would I then approach them. Nobody likes me”…. I love when people talk to me at the gym or smile and greet me when I'm out walking. Please make an appointment to talk with a counselor who can help you get out of negative thought spirals. It is something like this : Girl: Hi Me: Hey, How are you doin’ ? I agree with the old Southern saying that “there is a lid for every pot.” ... Vestus virum reddit. I don’t believe this is the case - but my friends seem to think that guys will not approach me because they are scared of rejection. In today’s modern world, however, the general point of view that men find women with long hair more attractive than those with short hair may still prevail. Trust me, people mature a lot after high school. In these places, unwanted advances can be considered harassment. International and National Hotline Numbers, Have to talk to someone right now? I saw that video somad like few years ago and I have still always like really agree with it. There are plenty of reasons to read. Some guys lack communication skills to approach women and think it has to be in a certain setting. Have you lost a loved one? It’s done by getting rid of all the bullshit beliefs and habits you have that have been holding you back. I guess I must be intimidating or something because white guys just don't approach me. Why? if i was pretty noone would say "hey let's just be friends". You're better off ignoring it entirely and just do your best to be a decent person. then even if you are very attractive, most guys won’t bother with you. im not worth anything. (Accurate) Quiz: How Attractive Are You? too ugly for sex. In the middle of a set at the gym, if she has earbuds or headphones, if she's walking rapidly or running to wherever she's going etc... Just say hi, introduce yourself, make a little smalltalk, be friendly. There are women today who look a lot better and younger with the right short haircut. Most attractive women are attracted to abusive men. So there's no way to stay away from it. This may not happen much, but if you’re naturally a very attractive person, it can be difficult for a guy to approach you. Chill out — you might look hotter. The Allure of Attractive Men. Just fake it, that's what I did. but noone wants me. Almost puke at the thought of being with a woman. Keep semi initiating, there is nothing wrong with that. I was suffering from horrible anxiety and barely left my room, but I still expected a guy to fall into my lap and constantly wondered if I was completely unfuckable or hideous. I feel confident to assert my boundaries in my career, and I don’t need a guy to constantly bolster my self-confidence as I know I’m an attractive woman. If you act like you have a boyfriend, no guy will want to approach you because they don’t think they’ll have any luck. 2 years ago. The good news for women is that most young men find most young women attractive. Girls usually do not date guys for the … This is the place to talk about it. So you haven’t had much luck with women and have resigned yourself to believing ‘girls just don’t like me’. Thank you. It's hard to know if you're a guy-magnet or not. When I was less mature it was because I was too wrapped up in my own insecurities and was afraid she wasn't really as into me as she acted. I'm 27 years old and now sober for the first time in 12 years. because im not worth it. You don't have the confidence, but seriously, that's fine. i'd pay a few thousand bucks to be pretty. ... It’s the … ... you can learn to turn them … In fact, they will probably think you are either not interested in dating or that you are stuck up. It doesn’t help that I do draw a lot of attention based on my looks so I have a strong idea of how attractive I am. I'm super hesitant to approach women cause I've been reject, mocked, and laughed at for even trying. Welcome to the life of a wallflower. Spending time with someone who is always a sad sock becomes draining over time, and eventually they pull away so that they can spend time with other, more positive individuals. Guys don’t like rejection and if they ask a girl out and she says no, it often takes months before he’ll try again! I love Matthew Hussey. Only obnoxious dudes approach everyone, because they don’t care about possibly making someone uncomfortable. After viewing videos of women walking in both heels and flat shoes, the participants in the study rated the heel-wearing women as "significantly more attractive." I've recently lost my significant other because she left me, and now i miss her so much, but she's with another person. Attempted suicide once but that didn't work and I'm still paying the hospital for the treatment , can't gather the courage to do it again yet . Since most girls have, we feel like we can make a pretty safe bet that you have to! You don't have to go as deep as Scarlett Johansson's voice, but her voice might be more attractive to most men than, say, Kim Kardashian's voice. Looking pretty is not enough. Oh, but not for you. That said, try working on building your confidence. There may also be some blokes who think your back boobs are sexy. Do an informal interview with a friend or mentor who will lovingly tell you some of the good things you bring to the table and some of the areas where you need to change. Men, on the other hand, have a predisposition to find women attractive. C. No, they prefer my friends. Just because men do not find you attractive doesn't mean you get to change the rules of the attraction game. Don't go through it alone! Do you participate in any of that? Because it's much easier to build a serious relationship with an honest person and there is no risk that they will lie to you. In general the guys that have been attracted to me have been shorter. In my experience, women have a fairly narrow view of what they consider beautiful in other women. ... girlfriends, etc., because they are attractive men – at least to somebody. Talk amongst fellow Redditors who would be happy to help. i lost count of how many times a guy said to me "i noticed that youre interested in me but i just see you as a friend". [–]SirMustache007 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago* (0 children). So, the very first thing you need to do is: Don’t Look Sick, and Don’t Smell Sick. Stress. ... I’m An Attractive, Successful Woman And Men Don’t … [–]LovelyPositivity 4 points5 points6 points 2 years ago (0 children), Not OP but just want to say this is awesome and so are you, buddy! Do not intentionally post comments to hurt anyone's feelings or be rude or mean. When I was in high school and college I barely noticed the blonde-haired, blue-eyed girls. While happiness is generally considered attractive on women, they often don't go for guys who appear overly smiley. You don't have to have your whole life figured out, but guys don't want to be with someone who is lacking any sort of purpose or direction. Guys don't seem to find me attractive once they get to know me? The girls that guys find attractive are the girls that think they themselves are attractive. To learn more about how to flirt without being sleazy , get more dates, develop confident body language, and overcome your approach anxiety in just 5 days, check out The Art of Charm Bootcamp. Quiz: How Attractive Are You? And, I don’t find younger men mentally attractive. Men see this behavior pattern, and they choose to either steer clear of such insanity, or they might just understandably cave and give those women exactly what they want. too ugly to be a friend. Guys think you’re out of their league. It's hard but it works. too ugly. It is a safe place to be where you don’t have to face other people, hold a conversation, or face rejection. Have you ever wondered whether guys find you hot or not? I recently made an Instagram post on rejection if you want to check it out I'll link it to you. The only time you should hold off is when she's obviously busy. most people think "lol what's wrong with her nose" and "lol she is so quiet and awkward". What Carolyn Says: Well, I have naturally curly hair so don't fucking touch it. A 2013 study by researchers in Finland, South Africa, the … It used to frustrate me when I was younger, but then I just decided to embrace it. This means that to the degree you can, get rid of problems with your teeth, skin, odor, substance issues (believe me – finding out that someone is a smoker the first time you kiss them is bad to experience). Guys WANT to approach you, but if we approached every girl we though was attractive we’d never get anywhere because that’s all we’d be doing. That said, I don't know if I could date a guy shorter than me (but it would probably be pretty difficult to find … Well, guys are just as complicated. Do Guys Find Me Attractive? For example, a dance class or a recreational sports team. I truly feel like this is correctly encompasses the reason guys won’t approach girls. Rendered by PID 20040 on r2-app-02b3e9ac3f5a31c62 at 2021-01-09 01:29:29.603524+00:00 running d8cca48 country code: GB. 1. But of course, don't forget about being tactful. We're sure you don't want to tell your partner about all your problems at once. That's the ONLY way you'll know for certain. Men don’t just go around and tell every woman what a great lover she is. i'm ugly. That said, it is possible that you are the hawt girl, and not know it. I am attracted to white and Asian guys but I feel like white guys don't find me attractive. then i would be a little less ugly than i currently am. This subreddit is also great for those who get gratification out of helping others. The filter has a mind of its own. Make it easy. The truth is that you can hit up a conversation with anyone at almost any time! but that doesnt change the fact that i am ugly and men want women that are pretty.. i don't believe that people my age focus on character. But, I still have to be able to have the ability to want to kiss you and I … men won't want me unless im attractive. According to the study, guys found "a female voice sounded attractive when it was breathy" and "moderately high-pitched." B. Don’t worry though, there’s a light at the end of this tunnel. Men really appreciate a skilled and committed lover. In fact, a lot of women have negative experiences when it comes to sexual feedback. i hate myself so much. For me it's very much that I've been trained that women don't want to be approached at work, at the gym, waiting for the bus, etc. 0. reply. * Let me clarify - I find them pleasing to the eye, and every so often quite tempting, but I don't find myself actually attracted to them. No. So...a grocer approached me last week and I couldn't tell if he was making small talk as part of his job or if it was sincere flirting, but I ended up panicking and "running". Requests for suggestions about financial troubles are welcome. A. This is in no way me claiming to be super attractive - I’m average, but I know I dress nicely and am good with hair/makeup so pull myself together reasonably well. It takes a long time of catching yourself and correcting your thinking to change these inherent beliefs you have about your self, and what your saying aren’t objective truths, their your opinion. This is in no way me claiming to be super attractive - I’m average, but I know I dress nicely and am good with hair/makeup so pull myself together reasonably well. My friends get hit on and I actually see guys checking them out, but never happens to me… It's something that spans farther than physical beauty. The best we can offer here is moral support. But yeah, approaching someone where they can't really escape because they're doing something and don't really have any alternatives sucks because making an escuse means they have to avoid something like a bus to get to work or their gym where they pay a membership fee and it's really hard to get out of that. Make them know that if they approach you, that first interaction will be easy. Reply Link. It's the 21st century. I feel confident to walk away from situations and men that don’t serve me, and to give men feedback if they do something I don’t like. Men don't want to go in for a kiss and come out looking like they just joined the circus. If you will allow me to make an educated guess, it is that men do find you attractive! WHY?! nowadays it's all about the looks. Guys want to approach you, and they will if they feel that you’ve given them permission to approach. The club was having a Peruvian … The unique swagger that comes from walking in heels also causes men to find women more attractive, apparently. Otherwise, we will try to check as often as possible to get it out. If you’re surrounded by guy friends, GWWTAY. [–]Depressed_Maniac 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children). I don't really know you personally, so I don't know what you are actually like, but your posts implication that your nose is the only reason others wont spend time with you is a tad ridiculous. im too ugly. I can say from absolute experience that this is not true. This is so depressing. Rep:? He tries to get her to like him, before she is attracted to him. The age of a woman men find most attractive never makes it above 24. Many attractive women in their 20s reject all but the most attractive and powerful men Many of those rejected men go on to become more attractive and powerful in their 30s and 40s When those women turn 30, they become less marketable and are surprised to learn that the top men don’t want them—because they’re now chasing the young women they used to be I was a lot like you in highschool, except guys who knew I liked them used me to get answers on tests and shit like that. Here are some of the many reasons why good guys get rejected by women: 1. I started to look for other qualities IF the attraction is at least a 6. You can either complain about it (strengthening reason #1 of” why girls don’t like me”) or you can get some decent jeans, nice shoes, keep clean, and improve your odds at attracting women. it's my nose. Don’t miss that opportunity. i just cant imagine anyone deciding to talk to me, when there are so many other girls around me who are a thousand times prettier. (the reason I posted this pic is so no one here tells me go to the gym because I already do and it hasn't helped me to get a girl to find me attractive after almost a year now) im really just depressed , don't know what to do anymore . instead theyre like "uhh.. no thanks, i'll pass". If you are removed for being too harsh in posts and you believe it was done unfairly, please message the mods. Find your group chat here >> start new discussion reply. I don’t think anyone here is gonna be able to change you’re mind about your self image. 10. “Calling me after sending me a rapid fire of texts that I don’t answer. It may be hard to hear, but men are noticing that stuff anyway. You see someone you like, make a move, if it doesn't work, you're no worse off than you were before. So, pick yourself up off of the fucking floor and get some help. I just get so jealous and sad because some women can go out to a simple place such as the grocery store or gas station and have guys ask for their number but that never happens to me. I am 5'4 and 120 lbs and my sister tells me all the time that I don't have a boyfriend because I don't go out a lot but I do go out a lot (I am in college and I am out and about everywhere). Una likes them latino and Dos and I like them white. Go to first unread Skip to page: lachachacha Badges: 16. [–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (0 children), [–]ORPHH 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (0 children). So it could be a lot of things. Announcements Applying to uni? ... A self-confident person who doesn’t have complexes and considers themselves attractive and successful appreciates the same qualities in other people. use the following search parameters to narrow your results: Has something terrible happened in your life? Be Supportive If what you're saying is having a negative impact on someone seeking support, your comments may be removed, and you may be banned. © 2021 reddit inc. All rights reserved. Hmm, the more you know, right? In my experience, women have a fairly narrow view of what they consider beautiful in other women. Essentially, make yourself easy to approach. So your looks absolutely aren’t the problem. Let me give you an example. Watch. I feel confident to walk away from situations and men that don’t serve me, and to give men feedback if they do something I don’t like. I think God put this in the male psyche to propagate the species. The reality was that my shitty, depressed, hateful personality was kind of a turn-off. It's more attractive to look at and feels nicer to touch when it's free of gels or sticky products. And here I have to admit that I am undoubtedly judging their books by their covers, but I have yet to find the exception to the rule. ... Those blessed with naturally plump lips … Self confidence is extremely attractive. i wish i could be pretty. Conversely, a 20-year-old woman will be most attracted to a 23-year-old-man … But I'm sure you knew that- you just didn't want to. However, this doesn’t immediately discount women with pixie cuts or bobs as less attractive. 2. and then they stop talking to me. By this we mean a specific feature of yours that others may find attractive, such as your long legs or your plump lips. Of course, none of the guys are going to find you all that attractive either. We are all into different people, it just takes some of us a while before we can be confident enough to admit it. It hurts so much i feel like i have a sword going through my heart all day. Yeah, in modern times, guys can’t just cold approach without being called a creep, or a even worse like catching a case for harassment or something like that. You sound like my ex, so I'm gonna give you some cold advice. or Create Personality Quiz. If you're afraid of getting hit by #metoo, there's nothing you can do. Question 21 Do you like parties? nothing changed. B. Thankfully, women definitely don’t reject good men in favor of bad men. Well, most men. Men and women don’t find the same things attractive. Drawing in their eyebrows.’ Look love, thanks to the great over-plucking massacre of 1999, most of … No matter how selective a woman might be, some have strict physical attributes from their must-haves list, as an OkCupid study found that women find 80 percent of men unattractive. Attractive men may actually possess better-quality genes, and thus may be healthier, live longer, and even be more intelligent (Perrilloux et al., 2010). It's hard to know if you're a guy-magnet or not. Don’t let the sheer fear of rejection stop you from getting a nice girlfriend. Just because no one whistles at you as you cross a street, doesn't mean some other women do not enjoy it. i lost count of how many times a guy said to me "i noticed that youre interested in me but i just see you as a friend". Furthermore, each man … i just want someone to be with me. i was always that "shy ugly girl" and i hate myself for it. Your physical appearance probably has less of an impact on other people's perception of you, in comparison to your behavior. if you seem like you are busy, guy won’t want to approach you. “Calling me after sending me a rapid fire of texts that I don’t answer. I’ve been single for a year and only been asked on two dates - both I had to semi initiate...I’m starting to get resentful about the lack of proper attention I receive. Never. Then I found out ghosting is usually what happens after the cute girl says yes or we just sort of talk off and on for months/years while I occasionally ask "are you free?" Of course, don't try to change yourself to make anyone happy. If you don’t flash a smile in a guy’s way, GWWTAY. every time i see a pretty woman i get so fucking jealous. I felt horrible about it.). Wrong! Server: irc.freenode.net Room: #reddit-mmfb. There's nothing wrong with it, however, being like that make guys more reluctant to date you. And when I have my Men Preferred Natural Looking Hair, … I love them! If you come across as “oh woe is me. Men don't want to go in for a kiss and come out looking like they just joined the circus. Been there. Men on Reddit have been furiously adding to an Ask Men thread entitled: ‘What is something women think makes them more attractive to men while men think it makes them less attractive?’ if a man friendzones you, it's because of your looks. (55.8 Kg). 800-273-TALK (8255), For those who don't mind a harsher approach, try /r/HowToNotGiveAFuck. [–]PaxDramaticus 9 points10 points11 points 2 years ago (2 children). Photo: Getty Images . We have to approach when we can and if she doesn't smile and get chatty within 5 seconds, excuse yourself and get back to your own business. noone will ever look at me and think "wow she is cute" or "wow she is pretty". I've noticed that men don't seem to pay attention to me anymore while out in bars and all. Guys are looking for signs that you want to be approached, if you can successfully give off these signs they will approach you. ... THEN women will find me attractive. Let me give you an example. Here’s an example of a time I semi-initiated and it semi-failed - there’s a guy I’ve known for a few years (don’t know him well) who I’ve always found attractive, every time I see him out, I make sure to say hello and be friendly...a few weeks ago I saw him out, said hello etc. We don’t know who they are, or whether they are in any way a representative sample of single men… People decided for themselves whether they wanted to add a comment to the Reddit thread. In my case I don't do it because I am well aware of the fact I'll get rejected. It sounds that you are strong and smart, but short-tempered and improper. [–]drewisbeast567 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (4 children). However, after about a year of keeping at it I had gone from 210 Lb. 2. Good-looking men are assumed to have better personalities, more rewarding careers, and more fulfilling life experiences (Dion … For example, you say that you "can't speak" and experience inability to communicate normally when attractive men are around. What is it that you are doing wrong? What people don't like is when you're being bothersome. So, perhaps it is a negative perspective of life, or consistent negative remarks which drives other people away. In general the guys that have been attracted to me have been shorter. I mean, firstly because the whole concept of the friendzone is bunk to begin with, but also because I have definitely chosen not to get involved with women I found attractive but for whom there was some other complication I didn't want to deal with. College is great because you can find friends, and if you don’t like them you can stop talking to them and never see them again. Me … and then they stop talking to me. that was in middle/high school of course. In one word, confidence. you get weird looks, noone takes you seriously, girls don't want to be friends with you, instead they bully you and guys don't wanna to talk to you. noone does. I wasted my whole life taking drugs. [–]drewisbeast567 2 points3 points4 points 2 years ago (2 children), Freshman/sophomore year is honestly just high school 2.0, I think 2nd semester sophomore year is when the greatest change happens, [–]mayflowerpenguin[S] 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (1 child). I've noticed that men don't seem to pay attention to me anymore while out in bars and all. It wasn't easy; I don't have great self-discipline. Once you hit the professional world or college, whichever you choose to do, people start to judge you on the merit of your soul rather than how you look physically. i feel like you only find love if you're pretty. New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast, A subreddit to discuss and vent about the dating process and learn from the experiences of others, Press J to jump to the feed. I realize that we can’t always have it all and finally, I am okay with that. and that's why i'm alone.. [–]Goodbye_nagasaki 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (0 children). The girl that gets approached is the one that can make guys around her feel comfortable going up to them. Tldw (it’s only like five mins, not bad at all you should): men don’t want to be creepy. 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